Our Lost Ones
2016 ended with a bang ~ and not a good one.
This world lost a host of widely known celebrities that have shaped our lives –
- Carrie Fisher, a champion for female empowerment
- George Michael and Prince shaping many memories
- Big Ang, who brought us some great entertainment on Mob Wives
just to name a few off the top of my head. But so many more recognizable people died as well.
Lori Anne was a mentor, a confident, a leader. As sad as I am that I’ve lost her, I can’t help but think about how many lives she touched.
She’s the one that introduced me to the National Coalition of 100 Black Women in Orange County, an organization with which I still volunteer today. She was the biggest cheerleader of me becoming a stay at home mom, always making me feel better about my decision when so many people asked me “why I am wasting my law degree”.
More importantly, after posting this on Facebook, the sheer number of people who reached out, not just to comfort me, but because she had touched their lives too.
I spoke with her just last week, and although there were some issues, she was positive, enlightening and always left me with words of wisdom.
Even in her death, all I can think about is how she was happy until the end, at least that’s what she told to the world and how she sounded on the phone. She told me that she had to put her health in God’s and doctors’ hands and her only responsibility was to live her life the best way she could.
So, to her I say, Rest In Peace “Big Sis”.
To everyone else, are you living your life the best way that you can?