What We Believe Determines Our Outcome

Eagle and the Chickens

The Eagle and the Chickens

A long time ago in a remote valley, there lived a farmer. One day he got tired of the daily routine of running the farm and decided to climb the cliffs that brooded above the valley to see what lay beyond.

He climbed all day until he reached a ledge just below the top of the cliff; there, to his amazement was a nest, full of eggs.

Immediately he knew they were eagle’s eggs and, even though he knew it was profoundly un-ecological and almost certainly illegal, he carefully took one and stowed it in his pack; then seeing the sun was low in the sky, he realized it was too late in the day to make the top and slowly began to make his way down the cliff to his farm.

When he got home he put the egg in with the few chickens he kept in the yard. The mother hen was the proudest chicken you ever saw, sitting atop this magnificent egg; and the cockerel couldn’t have been prouder.

Sure enough, some weeks later, from the egg emerged a fine, healthy egret. And as is in the gentle nature of chickens, they didn’t balk at the stranger in their midst and raised the majestic bird as one of their own.

So it was that the eagle grew up with its brother and sister chicks. It learned to do all the things chickens do: it clucked and cackled, scratching in the dirt for grits and worms, flapping its wings furiously, flying just a few feet in the air before crashing down to earth in a pile of dust and feathers.

It believed resolutely and absolutely it was a chicken.

One day, late in its life, the eagle-who-thought-he-was-a-chicken happened to look up at the sky. High overhead, soaring majestically and effortlessly on the thermals with scarcely a single beat of its powerful golden wings, was an eagle!

“What’s that?!”, cried the old eagle in awe. “It’s magnificent! So much power and grace!It’s beautiful!”

“That’s an eagle”, replied a nearby chicken, “That’s the King of the Birds. It’s a bird of the air… not for the likes of us. We’re only chickens, we’re birds of the earth”.

With that, they all cast their eyes downwards once more and continued digging in the dirt.

And so it was that the eagle lived and died a chicken… because that’s all it believed itself to be.

~Author Unknown

 

How many of us have these FAKE friends? You may say that they were only chickens and eagles, how could they be fake friends?

Although the birds may not have looked in the mirror, they knew that the eagle was different, the he did not fit in with the rest of them.

They also were very aware of what an eagle was, quickly differentiating themselves from the soaring eagle above ~ The KING of the birds.

Why would the eagle never soar?

The Eagle was Born to Win, but Conditioned to Lose

The eagle lived with the chickens, enjoying his time with his friends. His friends were proudly birds of the earth, and wanted their eagle buddy to stay with them. They helped him learn and grow in the chicken community, never suggesting or encouraging him to be an eagle. Instead, likening him to a chicken when another eagle soared above.

The Eagle Never Knew Anything Different

In his lifestyle, the eagle didn’t’ come across any other eagles, except the lone one that flew above. He only knew the lifestyle of the chicken and felt that he could only be a chicken. Unfortunately, his FAKE friends didn’t tell him otherwise.

The Eagle Had Fake Friends and Didn’t Know It

FAKE friends are ones that don’t want to see the best in you or want the best for you. They are the ones that see you are an eagle, know that they aren’t, so they don’t want you to soar. They are working out of jealousy, ignorance or even just their desire to not lose their friend to the sky. The chickens would prefer to have the eagle dig in the dirt next to them than to be a great King of the Birds.

 

So, the question is…

Do you have FAKE friends?
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Are your friends working to convince you that you are a chicken or are they willing to let you soar?

Now, if you have friends that you like to hang out with or just have a good time, that’s one thing, but you may have to reassess your friendships if they are the ones that encircle you.

Whether your “friends” convince you to stay in a bad relationship, tell you that you aren’t smart enough to get a degree or pretty enough to find a husband, none of them are not worth your time.

You may need to get rid of the things that are holding you back. Sometimes those decisions are hard, but when it comes to some friends, especially longstanding friendships, they are downright awkward.

Don’t let those around you hold you back.

You may just have to let the past go. Be the champion that you need to be. Diva in the now.

 

 

Come linkup and join us weekly for The 1 Word Blog Linkup hosted by The Golden Spoons, Blogitudes and Confessions of a Mommyholic on Wednesday Mornings at 6 am EST.  This week’s wordsFAKE & QUIET.

This post was inspired by Essentials for Godly Living – Session II: Matching your desires to your outcome.

References: Phil 2:12-13; Hebrews 12:1

16 thoughts on “What We Believe Determines Our Outcome”

  1. Loved this story and the truths about how we view ourselves, when surrounded by negativity. I’ve learned to distance myself from negative friends. It’s toxic to my future and my thoughts. If I’m to move forward, I must let go of people/things holding me back. I’ll have to grab a copy of the Essentials for Godly Living.

    1. Sadly, so many people, like the eagle, don’t know that they are surrounded by negativity. They think that it just “is”. Essentials for Godly Living is a local ministry. Thanks for letting me know, I forgot to link it up.

  2. I am so very glad you’re part of One Word, April. I love reading your excellent posts! This one is absolutely no exception! I’ve had fake friends who were just like those chickens you mentioned. They didn’t have the ambition to reach for their dreams, and they didn’t want me to have it either. Luckily, I saw the eagle flying and was able to recognize that I wasn’t like some of the chickens I was hanging out with at the time. I cut myself loose – which wasn’t easy as you so perfectly explained – but it was well worth it. I know my life in the long run has been much happier because of it. Thank you so much for writing and sharing this beautiful post! I loved it! 🙂

    1. It’s hard. Those people often are the only people you know and you need to make new friends. Making some new eagle friends first is necessary to help get you off of the ground. Man, this eagle analogy is pretty cool. 🙂 Thank you so much. I enjoy writing them. Often the Word ties together the lessons that I’ve learned over the week to bring it to a cohesive post.

  3. I have totally had fake friends in the past and am thankful that as I get older I can see through this phenomenon more easily and have truly surrounded myself with people who are real and aren’t fake. But still if I do encounter this, I try my best to stay as far as possible for these types of people truly are more trouble than they are worth.

    1. And boy are they trouble, and want you to be trouble with them. As much as I have tried to help some see that they are eagles, they are very comfortable being chickens. It’s what they know.

  4. Very thought provoking. I love that story, and it’s a good idea to evaluate and determine whether you’re soaring with eagles or pecking dirt with the chickens. 🙂

  5. Excellent story and lesson! I read your part twice and said, “Wow” both times. It’s rare that a post renders me speechless. This is one of those times that all I can do is share the awesomeness.

  6. So true! And some people are so conditioned to think little of themselves it seems there’s nothing you can do to talk them out of it. I try to be a real friend and build people up, but one friend has just been pushed down by so many others that he can’t see the eagle within! 🙁

  7. Very interesting. As I read the story of the eagle, I thought you were going to go the route of how the chickens accepted and loved him even though he was different. Your shift int he perspective surprised me and definitely made me think!

    1. Yes, I think a lot of people find their place of acceptance but then don’t think they can soar because they found their community. We just need to be aware that some people are just eagles and acceptance is great, but they also need to fly.

  8. What a story! It makes me think about all walks of life and what we are capable of, and not just about being surrounded by negativity and fake friends.
    May you meet many eagle friends!

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